StephanieUSA, I am praying for you and praying that you will talk to your Dad and the Lord will bring him to see the wrongness of his ways. He will have a change of mind and heart. This i pray in Jesus name. Amen 🩷✝️🙏
My whole life my dad hated kids and even told my mom when she got pregnant that she ruined his life by getting pregnant and my whole life she would have to ask him to do stuff with me. I had to purposely choose boy activities so I could spend time with him because he wasn’t interested in what I was doing. I had to like what he liked to have any bonding time. I’m 37 years old and I find myself still doing that. Trying to be a part of his life, but now this other family is awkwardly close to him, but he lies to them. And now he’s a drunk. My Whole childhood he didn’t drink. This situation takes its toll on my Mom and I as we see his health deteriorating and him choosing unsafe behaviors and hanging around with other people who do the drinking with him. And he lies and tells all these people my parents are still together. How come they aren’t smart enough to figure out my mom and I always come together in a separate car and we never leave at the same time. He even told the family with the girls where we live, ironically they live literally one street away from me, and they still haven’t figured it out. This has been years. God, step into this mess. It’s just one more narcissist I’ve been attached to my whole life being so ultimately selfish and destructive that they bring negativity into my life. How many narcissists do I have to suffer under? I’ve had bosses, boyfriends, family, where does it end? There’s so many bad people in this world who always choose themselves and don’t care how their actions and words affect others. They will lie, cheat, steal, destroy, and abuse at their own free will with NO care as to how they affect you.
StephanieUSA, I am praying for you and your dad.