Edghill1, I am praying for you, May God’s love and peace comfort you through the indifference you may have ! I pray that the relationship with you children and grandchildren be restored and you will be in peace through this process! We also are not allowed visits to see our only grandson, they are 3 1/2 hours away and I drive to see his ballgames when they are close by. That is neutral ground and my daughter let’s us know his schedule. It’s hard , but God will work this out for you and for us too! God bless you and keep praying over this situation! Amen! 🙏