Lucinda, what a truly difficult situation for all of you. We always want to rescue our kids and it is such a fine line to know when to step in and when to step back. I pray for clear direction from the Lord for you and your husband to know what to do. I pray for your son, that he will seek Jesus right now, and for his safety. I pray for peace for all three of you.
Lucinda, I pray that God guides your son to seek the help he needs. He may feel your relationship with him is harmful whether it is true or not so you must approach him with much sensitivity. In the name of the Creator, this is done. Amen.
Lucinda, I am praying for you