Rob2020, I am praying for you.You are doing the right thing by continuing to attend gatherings, because that is one way to meet people. Even attractive, intelligent people can often be shy, and hang back. Patience and perseverance have their reward, and God is likely working on your ideal partner, even as He's working on you ! Praying that He has someone very special reserved for you, who will be worth the wait ! Don't lose faith or lose hope. Praying against discouragement , and for health and finances, as well!
Your never alone -you have Jesus
Rob2020, I am praying for your comparable mate asap